Beyond the Bema

I’ve always wondered why G-d made me quiet. I will say, I’m more outgoing with my synagogue than I’ve ever been. But they would still say I’m quiet. I received this article from my very awesome Clergy member a while ago and wanted to point something’s out as I went back to reread it.

“Silence isn’t just about not talking. It is about listening with curiosity and openness. By listening from a place of compassion and generosity, we have the power to change the tone and direction of a conversation. Being fully open to another person makes us vulnerable, but it is easier if we recognize that our own vulnerability is what creates a safe place for the other person to be honest. A deeper truth can emerge – even “grow” – from that type of conversation”.

https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/262960?lang=bi

Silence isn’t just about not talking. Are you quiet to listen or are you quiet to react? I think sometimes we are so eager to respond and get our point across that we might not be listening to understand the other side. I see it daily, to be honest, but I have seen in a lot in Jewish culture. I think this can be a small reminder for everyone to be purposeful in conversation. Take the time to truly listen, it could really change perspectives for the better and also save relationships.

Be well.